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The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016get the look...ON HER Custom dress by Hayley Paige. Visit JLMCouture.com for similar styles.ACCESSORIES Custom tiara by Haute Bride. Visit HauteBride.com for similar styles. ON HIM Tuxedo, Armani.comPHOTOGRAPHER Chard PhotographerON HER Dress, $800, Mori Lee at Bliss Bridal, BlissFW.com (Forth Worth), Destiny Bridal Boutique, DestinyBridalSA.com (San Antonio), The Princess Bridal, ThePrincessBridal.com (Spring)ACCESSORIES Floral headpiece (worn as necklace), price upon request, OscardelaRenta.com; bracelet, $199, Swarovski.comON HER Dress, $898, WHITE by Vera Wang, DavidsBridal.comACCESSORIES Engagement ring, $1,595 (not including center stone), FredericSage.com; earrings, $396, Bounkit.com; bracelet, $295, AlexisBittar.comMIDDLE AND RIGHT COVERS: PHOTOGRAPHER: HEATHER WARAKSA FASHION STYLING: BRANDY JOY SMITH @ ARTMIX CREATIVE • HAIR: CASEY GEREN USING ORIBE/ABTP.COM • MAKEUP: JOY FENNELL USING MAC FOR CLOUTIER/REMIX • LOCATION: MEADOWBURN FARM IN VERNON, NJ…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016ask carleyQ My in-laws are backing out of paying for the rehearsal dinner, but they still want to have it at a fancy restaurant. Do we have to keep their plans?A Absolutely not! Regardless of their reason for rescinding their offer to host and pay for your rehearsal dinner, your in-laws have put you in a financial bind. You have other options: Host the rehearsal dinner at a nice restaurant and only invite the wedding party, or opt for an at-home, potluck-style event. Everyone can bring their favorite dish, and you’ll still have a nice prewedding get-together. And if your in-laws have a problem with it, they’re welcome to chip in again. Otherwise, they get no say.SHOWER GUEST LISTQ My bridesmaids asked for the guest list for my bridal shower. How…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 201610 totally texas venuesNo matter your wedding style, the Lone Star state has the perfect venue for you.lady bird johnson wildflower center4801 La Crosse Ave., Austin; (512) 232-0100; Wildflower.orgThe vast wildflower fields in Texas are second to none, which is what makes this Hill Country venue nothing short of breathtaking. The stone courtyard, illuminated by bistro lights, is full of local flair—not to mention gorgeous greenery—and is ideal for an intimate, rustic ceremony and reception. There’s also a cistern that doubles as an observation tower, so guests can enjoy a bird’s-eye view of the grounds.pecan springs ranch10601 Derecho Drive, Austin; (512) 632-1046; PecanSpringsRanch.comFeel like swapping pumps for cowboy boots? Go for it. This rustic ranch welcomes personalization at every turn. Pose in front of the log pavilion (with cute marquee lights that spell…4 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016advice from a... stationerHartsandQuills.comWhat advice do you have for couples who have no idea where to start with their wedding stationery?When it comes to calligraphy, I think the first step is understanding your wedding style. Are you more traditional, modern or whimsical? This way when you start the stationery process, you’ll have a general idea of the kind of calligraphy you need.What about style? Where should tobe-weds begin with inspiration?Style is different for everyone, even couples. I love combining them, adding flourishes in print or using a vibrant hue in a traditional suite. All of these can help different styles come together.Anything local specific that couples can incorporate into their wedding stationery or signage?Adding bluebonnets to signage or as an accent within your invitation works. I’ve seen brides incorporate local trees as well.…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016congrats from kelliechoose the planner who’s right for you Your day is too important to leave it up to anyone but the absolute best— especially when it comes to your wedding planner (p. 427). After all, he or she is the person who will help bring your vision to life, and keep you sane during the more trying times of the wedding planning process. stay on track Your to-do list is going to fill up fast. To make things a little easier, we’ve put together a comprehensive checklist of everything you need to do, and exactly when you need to do it. Find it on p. 554. Have your checklist available at all times by downloading The Knot Wedding Planner app to your smartphone (free, iTunes; Google Play). start your beauty plan…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016this magic momentD ress designer Hayley Paige is known for her whimsical and romantic gowns on the runway, so it’s no surprise that every detail from her own nuptials to insurance broker Danny Wallis would be equally as elaborate. The duo got engaged in June of 2014 and took on the challenge of planning their July wedding in Nevada’s Lake Tahoe a little more than a year later. The enchanted affair included no less than three dresses, two ceremonies and one epic dance party. And while Paige was involved in every detail, designing her dream gowns was her top priority. “Each dress was designed with a completely different concept,” Paige explains. The stained glass windows in the Catholic church where they held ceremony number one influenced the first (and most classic) dress,…3 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016my favorite things1 garden magazines“I like to bring organic elements into my designs,” Rabideau says. His parents live on seven acres, surrounded by nature. When he can’t spend time among plants and flowers, magazines are the next best way to get ideas.2 store window displaysSome of Rabideau’s favorites are shops that literally put their creativity on display, like Bergdorf Goodman (pictured), Anthropologie and West Elm. “I might take a piece I saw in a vignette and transform it into something else for one of my events.”3 cakes with dress detailsFor a recent wedding, Rabideau took photos of the bride’s dress to cake designer Ron Ben-Israel and had him incorporate the lace and crystal details into the confection. “It was such a striking gown—and the cake turned out amazing!”4 textured stationeryRabideau is super-passionate…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016a glam affairAfter a few years of casual weddings, couples are turning up the volume on the celebration and going luxe (think historic venues, lush florals, champagne towers and six-tier cakes). Looking to celebrate in style? We’ve got all the tips you need to pull off an elegant affair—and still have money left over for an amazing honeymoon.establish a budgetJust because you’re having a luxe wedding doesn’t mean you need to overspend. But since you’re going for upscale, establishing a budget is essential. It’s easy to fall for ornate plates and grand centerpieces only to be disappointed when they’re out of your reach. Consider what details are most important—is it a couture gown, top-shelf liquor or a massive ceremony floral installation? Adjust your budget accordingly—maybe you put less toward invites and spend…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016the new way to find your venuePicking your venue is a big decision. Not only will it likely be the most costly one you and your fiancé make—it’s about 50 percent of your budget—it also sets the tone for your entire nuptials (no pressure). Stressed? That’s where Venue Concierge by The Knot comes in. Our new free (yes, free!) service is made up of wedding professionals, or “venue concierges” as we call them, who will listen to all of your needs, hopes and challenges and help you find the perfect venue in your area. Plus, when you book using our service, we’ll throw in free wedding insurance to give you some peace of mind in case anything should happen that’s out of your control. How does it work exactly? Read on to find out.talk out the…4 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016monogramming 101While there are dozens of ways to leave your mark, from wedding dates to meaningful quotes, a classic monogram wins as the most popular way to personalize wedding details and newlywed gifts. But before you set out adding initials to your invites and towels, it’s important to know the “rules” so you can avoid a monogramming faux pas—the horror!history of the monogramAdding initials to linens and other household items is a longstanding tradition. Women used to prepare their “bridal trousseau” years in advance, pre-embroidering their first and maiden initials, leaving a space in the middle for their future surname. Nearly all the household linens would be monogrammed with only the wife’s married initials. The only exception to this rule is when men and women entertained in separate rooms in the…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016smart ways to snag the finest flowersMost brides-to-be have a pretty good idea about what a dress might cost, and caterers often share per-guest estimates on their websites. But many couples walk into their florist consultation with no basic knowledge of how much flowers are—or how different blooms can affect your bottom line. You may find you’ll need (or want) to readjust your budget after your initial appointment, but a good florist will help you achieve your vision without putting you in the red. We’ve rounded up seven helpful tips that will keep your flower spending down. >>centerpiece strategyThe floral arrangements that anchor your reception tables can be simple, chic creations or bold, beautiful masterpieces. Whatever your style, a talented florist will help you maximize your bloom budget—whether it’s super-strict or totally unlimited (lucky you!)—and not…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016SIMPLY STUNNINGLESS IS MOREA short mini with billowy sleeves and a sheer high collar makes for a bridal moment that’s just as memorable as a long gown. Dress, $5,290, Valentino.com; engagement ring, $1,600 (not including center stone), Gottlieb-Sons.com; earrings, $695, LanaJewelry.comCOUTURE CHOKERDeliver a bling-free statement when you accessorize your dress with an oversize piece like this silk flower choker. Dress, $800, Mori Lee at Bliss Bridal, BlissFW.com (Forth Worth), Destiny Bridal Boutique, DestinyBridalSA.com (San Antonio), The Princess Bridal, ThePrincessBridal.com (Spring); floral headpiece (worn as choker), price upon request, OscardelaRenta.com; bracelet, $199, Swarovski.comSHEER DELIGHTInstead of a veil, opt for a shoulder wrap—it feels modern but still offers a timeless touch of tulle. Dress, $1,695, tulle shrug, $150, Jenny Yoo at Unbridaled, Unbridaled.com (Austin), Bridal Collections by Stella, BridalCollectionsby Stella.com (Plano), The Wedding…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 201610 things you didn’t know about your diamondshow off your ring!Take an engagement ring self ie and tag it with #theknotrings1 the word “diamond” is derived from the Greek word adamas, which means “the invincible”As Mother Nature’s hardest precious substance, diamonds have long been known as the “Stone of Invincibility” and represent an indestructible strength (very fitting for marriage!). But the real allure of these sparkly stones, which ancient Greeks believed were delicate splinters of fallen stars, came from the powers and protection they offered the wearer. Throughout history, it was believed by kings that a diamond worn in battle would magically keep them safe. Ancient astrologers also believed diamonds had special powers; they thought the stones promoted lasting love and would ward off witchcraft and nightmares.2 engagement rings are prehistoricIt is believed that cavemen symbolized their…4 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016partymodern rooftop PHOTOGRAPHY BY PAMELA HULTS PHOTOGRAPHY PEARL EVENTS AUSTIN held a luxe rooftop event at the brand-new JW MARRIOTT AUSTIN (the largest hotel in Austin!). Lush blooms, clear furniture and sweet swan details added to the evening’s sophisticated vibe. “The space had only been open for a month and we knew the rooftop deck was where we needed to be in order to throw the party of the year. To accent the space, we kept the décor clean, crisp and modern, so as not to take away from the roof’s breathtaking views.” —Pearl Events Austin the team: event location JW Marriott Austin, Austin photography Pamela Hults Photography videography ILC Films planner Pearl Events Austin flowers Bouquets of Austin catering JW Marriott Austin desserts Kellie’s Baking Co.; Simon Lee Bakery…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016beauty to-dos before “I do”meet with a physician, nutritionist and/or trainerNothing puts a dampener on a special day like bloating, breakouts or a last minute dash to ditch those pesky five pounds. Set yourself up for success by establishing a health and fitness plan one year out. Joanna Vargas, a NYC–based celebrity facialist, believes that beauty starts from the inside out and often refers pimple-prone brides to an integrative physician to sort out a health plan to fix their skin. You may also want to enlist the assistance of a fitness guru by way of a nutritionist and/or trainer, so they can help you create a plan that’s both effective and healthy. The formula to a serene wedding day glow is simple: “Make goals, eat right, get rest and exercise! Steady and slow is…8 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016acne answersI never had acne growing up— why do I have it now?First off, it’s important to know that you’re not alone. Adult acne is a serious problem, and tons of women and men escape adolescence totally unscarred from teenage breakouts only to reach adulthood with a face full of acne. New York City dermatologist Dennis Gross, MD, says many factors contribute to adult-onset acne, including changing hormones, stress and genetics. “Adult acne usually begins in the late 20s to early 30s,” Gross says. “And stress is a catalyst that can play a role in aggravating the condition.” It’s no secret that planning a wedding is a hugely stressful experience, which could explain why your acne seemed to get worse as soon as preparations began.I have dry skin, so why am…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016grooming your groomIt’s no secret brides follow strict wedding prep before the wedding day—but what about the guys? These days, groom style is about so much more than just a rented suit. From manicuring his facial hair to choosing statement accessories, here are four easy ways to pamper your groom and give his wedding day style a little extra polish.update his suitOdds are, your groom is going to wear either a suit or a tux— but that doesn’t mean all menswear is created equal. Consider a slim-cut tux or suit to up the style factor. And, this may be surprising, but slimmer-cut suits actually work for every body type. “Sometimes, guys think going for a boxier shape will make their body appear slimmer, but it actually has the opposite effect,” says Andrew…7 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016this magic momentD ress designer Hayley Paige is known for her whimsical and romantic gowns on the runway, so it’s no surprise that every detail from her own nuptials to insurance broker Danny Wallis would be equally as elaborate. The duo got engaged in June of 2014 and took on the challenge of planning their July wedding in Nevada’s Lake Tahoe a little more than a year later. The enchanted affair included no less than three dresses, two ceremonies and one epic dance party. And while Paige was involved in every detail, designing her dream gowns was her top priority. “Each dress was designed with a completely different concept,” Paige explains. The stained glass windows in the Catholic church where they held ceremony number one influenced the first (and most classic) dress,…3 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016tech savvyUsing some of the most popular trends in technology for your wedding is just plain practical. Need a way to collect all of your wedding photos from Instagram? Create a custom wedding hashtag. Want to keep guests’ phones juiced up so they’re taking photos and video all night long? Transform one of your co*cktail hour tables into a cute cellphone charging station. Those are the technology mainstays of wedding planning at this point. But we’re here to tell you that cutting-edge 3-D printers, wearable technology (hello, Apple Watch) and robots (yes, you read that right) are the next big technology trends to hit the wedding scene. Here’s how.1 wearable technologyWhat if you could look back on your wedding day and actually be able to see your exact heart rate at…8 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016for better or verseSo at first you thought it would be a great idea to write your own vows, but now, a healthy dose of writer’s block (not to mention a fear of embarrassing yourselves) has left you with nothing but an empty page. Wondering how to turn those profound and life-altering feelings into a string of coherent words? Don’t worry—summing up all the reasons why you want to marry your partner isn’t quite as daunting as it seems. All you have to do is take it one word at a time. Start with this list of questions to get the creative juices flowing, and by the time you’ve finished answering them, you’ll have plenty of vow-worthy material to work with.Even the chattiest among us can come up short when it comes to…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016that’s a wrapAll those details you spent months agonizing over miraculously came together: You said your vows, celebrated at your reception and somehow, here you are—married! But you’re not done with that wedding checklist quite yet. Attend to these final postwedding to-dos during the first few weeks (or even days, if you’re not heading off on your honeymoon) after your nuptials, so you can enjoy the memories of your wedding for decades to come. >>hold on to your bouquetThere are two ways to save your flowers for the long haul. The press-and-frame option flattens a few individual blooms, so they can be displayed, while the glass dome (or shadow box) option vacuum seals your whole bouquet inside a glass container. You can also hang your bouquet upside down to dry it out…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016engage with the knot!get in on the conversation!HOT TOPICCan I ask my bridesmaids to wear their hair a certain way?@LondonLisa If you choose the hairstyle, you need to pay for it.@frenchiekin While your besties may not complain to your face, they may really hate the way their hair looks in the style you want—and I’d hate to worry that one of my bridesmaids is self-conscious about how she looks all day/night at my wedding.@huskypuppy14 Dictating specifics is saying you care more about the look of your wedding than your friends, and that’s not cool.explore our apps Whether you’re looking for dress inspiration or need a to-do list to keep you on track, The Knot apps are here to help you every step of the way.Here are some of our Instagram favorites. Follow us…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016get the look...ON HER Custom dress by Hayley Paige. Visit JLMCouture.com for similar styles. ACCESSORIES Custom tiara by Haute Bride. Visit HauteBride.com for similar styles. ON HIM Tuxedo, Armani.com PHOTOGRAPHER Chard Photographer ON HER Dress, $800, Mori Lee at Bliss Bridal, BlissFW.com (Forth Worth), Destiny Bridal Boutique, DestinyBridalSA.com (San Antonio), The Princess Bridal, ThePrincessBridal.com (Spring) ACCESSORIES Floral headpiece (worn as necklace), price upon request, OscardelaRenta.com; bracelet, $199, Swarovski.com ON HER Dress, $898, WHITE by Vera Wang, DavidsBridal.com ACCESSORIES Engagement ring, $1,595 (not including center stone), FredericSage.com; earrings, $396, Bounkit.com; bracelet, $295, AlexisBittar.com MIDDLE AND RIGHT COVERS: PHOTOGRAPHER: HEATHER WARAKSA FASHION STYLING: BRANDY JOY SMITH @ ARTMIX CREATIVE • HAIR: CASEY GEREN USING ORIBE/ABTP.COM • MAKEUP: JOY FENNELL USING MAC FOR CLOUTIER/REMIX • LOCATION: MEADOWBURN FARM IN VERNON, NJ…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016advice from a... floristMargotBlairFloral.comWhat first steps should couples take when picking their flowers?Choosing flowers that are not only readily available but will also work well in your climate is key. Having a style you want, as opposed to an exact flower, will give your florist the flexibility they need.What’s an easy way to incorporate local culture into your florals?Have the flower arrangements made of the same types of blooms that are in the landscaping of your wedding locale.Where should to-be-weds begin with style inspiration and how should they organize it all?I’m a big visual person, so I highly recommend the use of pictures—the more, the better! It’s important to recognize what it is you like, or even don’t like, about each picture. By doing that you’ll start to pick up on common threads…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016ranch rulesMaybe you’re a seasoned cowpoke or a city slicker with a country heart—either way, it’s hard to deny that there’s something magical about the big open sky and rustic refinement of a Texas ranch wedding. If you’re thinking about ranch nuptials (and we can’t blame you), plan no further until you’ve read our insider’s guide to the perfect homestead wedding.pick a hitching postThe Lone Star State is home to many wedding-worthy ranches, which can make the thought of picking just one overwhelming. Make things easier on yourself by starting your venue search with a good idea of your day’s theme and vibe. For a big, kid-friendly family reunion, for example, check out Moon River Ranch (MoonRiverRanch.com) in Satin—it offers enough activities (from skeet shooting to horseback riding) to entertain an…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016wedding color 101: the new-school rulesYears ago, weddings were white—period. Brides wore white, and cakes, flowers and centerpieces followed. A color-loving couple would be lucky to work in a few fun accents—maybe a pair of sapphire studs for her or a crimson tie for him. Today, parties incorporate plenty of pigment. Because of that, your wedding colors should be pinned down before (or at the same time as) you pick your venue. Here are nine things to consider.1 play with paint websitesFrom seeing colors in action (by virtual room painting) to reviewing recommendations for popular color combos, paint companies know a lot about mixing and matching. Our faves include Behr, Glidden, Sherwin-Williams and Benjamin Moore, which has an interactive color tool on its website that you can use to customize your colors.2 go with the…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016beyond the ballroomconverted buildingsWedding venues are popping up all across the country in buildings that at one time had an entirely different use. Former warehouses, monasteries, factories and even airplane hangars can be rented out for big events—like your wedding. These unconventional and raw spaces are like blank canvases that can be decorated to fit almost any theme or aesthetic, not to mention that the addition of flowers and décor creates a beautiful contrast.TIP If the space doesn’t hold regular events, you may want to hire an event designer and wedding coordinator. They can help you navigate trickier elements like rentals and liquor licenses.librariesIconic libraries make the perfect backdrop for a sophisticated soiree, as the spaces are usually historic and sprawling, with beautiful architectural details. If you love literature, you’ll totally fall…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016homestead charma tart startA petit dessert station with fruits, berries and individual-sized lemon cakes is the perfect not-too-sweet treat to start off the day. Personal portions are more casual than cutting into a cake right away, and it’s a gesture that makes each guest feel like her presence is appreciated. Event design, Lyndsey Hamilton Events; cakes, NineCakes.comeclectic embraceWhether you’re dining indoors or alfresco, play up the tabletop décor. Mismatched place settings and colored glasses perpetuate a one-of-akind vibe. For the flowers, consider big blooms like dahlias paired with long stems of foliage for a fresh-from-the-field look. Florals, PoppiesandPosies.com; furniture, RevolveFurnitureCo.comfavors in bloomA build-your-own-bouquet bar is the perfect hands-on activity: Guests can mingle between noshing on snacks and arranging florals without the flow of the party being interrupted. (Bonus: The bouquets double…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 201650 WEDDINGS, 50 STATEStexas wedding winner PHOTOGRAPHY BY AMBER VICKERY PHOTOGRAPHY Set against a breathtaking desert backdrop, Anna and Chris celebrated their love with a locale-inspired color palette and go-to Texas treats. Because, really, what’s a wedding without breakfast tacos and spicy margaritas? Want to share your wedding? Tweet me @shelbyhsimon. Check out more winners at TheKnot.com/50weddings…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 201610 totally texas venuesNo matter your wedding style, the Lone Star state has the perfect venue for you. lady bird johnson wildflower center 4801 La Crosse Ave., Austin; (512) 232-0100; Wildflower.org The vast wildflower fields in Texas are second to none, which is what makes this Hill Country venue nothing short of breathtaking. The stone courtyard, illuminated by bistro lights, is full of local flair—not to mention gorgeous greenery—and is ideal for an intimate, rustic ceremony and reception. There’s also a cistern that doubles as an observation tower, so guests can enjoy a bird’s-eye view of the grounds. pecan springs ranch 10601 Derecho Drive, Austin; (512) 632-1046; PecanSpringsRanch.com Feel like swapping pumps for cowboy boots? Go for it. This rustic ranch welcomes personalization at every turn. Pose in front of the log pavilion…4 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20165 easy DIYsCustomizing your wedding is the best way to celebrate your uniqueness as a couple—and make it a day guests won’t forget. From reception décor to parting favors, there are dozens of ways to leave your mark. We’ve rounded up some simple projects anyone can tackle —no prior craft experience necessary. And we promise you’ll be delighted with the end result too!tissue paper tasselscolored tissue paperscissorsrulerhot glue gunribbon or cordhow to1 Fold tissue paper in half lengthwise.2 Cut the entire sheet in half vertically, creating two “mini” sheets.3 Use a ruler to mark 2 inches from the centerfold, then cut fringe.4 Unfold tissue paper and roll tightly into a long tassel.5 Twist in the middle and fold in half to create a loop (like a twist tie).6 Secure the twist with…3 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016advice from a... floristMargotBlairFloral.com What first steps should couples take when picking their flowers? Choosing flowers that are not only readily available but will also work well in your climate is key. Having a style you want, as opposed to an exact flower, will give your florist the flexibility they need. What’s an easy way to incorporate local culture into your florals? Have the flower arrangements made of the same types of blooms that are in the landscaping of your wedding locale. Where should to-be-weds begin with style inspiration and how should they organize it all? I’m a big visual person, so I highly recommend the use of pictures—the more, the better! It’s important to recognize what it is you like, or even don’t like, about each picture. By doing that you’ll start…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016advice from a... stationerHartsandQuills.com What advice do you have for couples who have no idea where to start with their wedding stationery? When it comes to calligraphy, I think the first step is understanding your wedding style. Are you more traditional, modern or whimsical? This way when you start the stationery process, you’ll have a general idea of the kind of calligraphy you need. What about style? Where should tobe-weds begin with inspiration? Style is different for everyone, even couples. I love combining them, adding flourishes in print or using a vibrant hue in a traditional suite. All of these can help different styles come together. Anything local specific that couples can incorporate into their wedding stationery or signage? Adding bluebonnets to signage or as an accent within your invitation works. I’ve seen…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016little white dressengagement partyThis is basically a celebration that’s dedicated to showing off your new bling. So choose a co*cktail dress with some embellishments for a style that shines as bright as your ring. CLOCKWISE FROM LEFT $795, Notte by Marchesa, BHLDN.com; $5,990, Pamella Roland, KleinfeldBridal.com; $850, Galina Signature, DavidsBridal.com; earrings, $115, Flat128.com; headband, $400, TwigsandHoney.com; heels, $130, WHBM.combridal showerKeep your look girly yet casual for an afternoon with close friends and family. A frilly maxi or simple shift allows for maximum comfort while still looking totally bridal. CLOCKWISE FROM LEFT $2,400, TwigsandHoney.com; $158, Julia Jordan, LordandTaylor.com; $194, ForLoveandLemons.com; heels, $160, Menbur, BHLDN.combachelorette weekendWhen it comes to a night out with your best girls, a minidress is the only way to go! Keep your look sexy yet chic with a classic silhouette,…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016the 411 on hair extensionswhat you need to knowWhile hair extensions are an obvious choice for brides dreaming of longer locks on their wedding day, their uses go beyond providing extra length. Lisa Richards, cofounder of RPZL, a hair-extension and blowout bar in New York City, says brides who are looking for fuller and more beautiful tresses are also perfect candidates for hair extensions. “The extra volume they offer is especially useful for more dramatic updos,” says Richards. But before you become the proud owner of a handful of extensions, there are a few things you’ll want to consider, such as the type of hair extension you want or need, plus the texture, color and price point. Not sure where to start? Don’t worry. We did all the research for you.hair care“It’s helpful for…7 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016the new ring rulesOLD RULE you should only have one wedding bandNEW RULE stack mixed-metal bandsLaurent Landau, president of Diamond Ideals, says it’s not uncommon for brides to want to mix metals within a set. “We used to sell one band to match the engagement ring; now we might make three ‘matching’ wedding bands— one in white, one in yellow and one in pink,” Landau says. “A bride should have a variety of options for the wedding and beyond.”OLD RULE your engagement ring should be white or yellow goldNEW RULE don’t be afraid to try different colorsRose gold is a beautiful warm metal that looks great with a number of different diamond shapes and styles (not to mention skin tones), plus it can make a traditional style look new again. “A hint of…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016you’ll get here...1 set a timetableThe minute you get engaged, everyone will start asking if you’ve picked a date. But honing in on one is kind of a puzzle. Start by looking at a range of possible dates. Think about the month or season, not a particular Saturday night. And don’t forget about any major holidays, family events or sporting events (if you’re a major fan) that might present a conflict. Give yourself enough time to plan—most engagements are about a year, but you can certainly pull off a wedding in six months or less.2 choose a style and pick a locationBefore you do anything wedding related, like visiting a venue or going to look at dresses, you’ll need to figure out the style you want. Picture your fantasy wedding and ask…7 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 201610 things no one tells you about your wedding photosPHOTOGRAPHY BY THIS LOVE OF YOURS PHOTOGRAPHYchoosing your photographer will be more about a feeling than your budget or anything elseYou’ll want someone you click with, since they’ll be following you around on your wedding day. You may get a feeling from their pictures alone, or it may be a gut reaction when you meet them for the first time. Budget will still play a role in your decision of course, but instinct (and vibe) will totally take over when it comes down to it. It’s not irrational; it’s actually normal.engagement photos are a perfect test runUnless you’re a professional model, you’ll probably be a little shy in front of the camera at first, but practice makes perfect. Taking engagement photos will give you guys a chance to warm up…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016say yes to a videographerAsk any couple on their 30th anniversary if they’d like to hear their vows, see the fatherdaughter dance or listen in on candid bridal party conversation—few would say no. Couples can experience moments they may have missed, while people who weren’t able to be there will feel like they didn’t miss a thing. Read on to fi nd eight more reasons to get the video camera rolling.1 you’ll see every last detailThere will inevitably be parts of the day you won’t get to see, like the groomsmen getting ready, the guests finding their seats before the ceremony or how nervous your significant other looked while he or she waited to see you for the first time. A video will fill in the blanks, not to mention capture the parts that…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016where to go whenphu*kET, THAILANDspring MARCH TO MAYfall SEPTEMBER TO NOVEMBERLANAI, HAWAIIBUDAPEST, HUNGARYsummer JUNE TO AUGUSTwinter DECEMBER TO FEBRUARYSYDNEY, AUSTRALIAif you’re traveling in...winterbeachsydney, australiaWhile you can count on beach weather most of the year, December to February is the best time to hit the Aussie shore. Stay in the city center along the harbor for easy access to Sydney’s top attractions, including the Sydney Opera House, SEA LIFE Sydney Aquarium and Taronga Zoo—and beaches. After soaking in the sights, take a 20-minute taxi ride to famous Bondi Beach. Known for its waves, Bondi is a popular surf spot (sign up for lessons at LetsGoSurfing.com.au); there’s also an enclosed swimming area on the south side of the beach at the Bondi Icebergs Club (daily entry is about $5).WHERE TO STAY The all-suite Pullman Quay…14 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016congrats from kelliechoose the planner who’s right for youYour day is too important to leave it up to anyone but the absolute best— especially when it comes to your wedding planner (p. 427). After all, he or she is the person who will help bring your vision to life, and keep you sane during the more trying times of the wedding planning process.stay on trackYour to-do list is going to fill up fast. To make things a little easier, we’ve put together a comprehensive checklist of everything you need to do, and exactly when you need to do it. Find it on p. 554. Have your checklist available at all times by downloading The Knot Wedding Planner app to your smartphone (free, iTunes; Google Play).start your beauty plan nowOver the next few…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016engage with the knot!get in on the conversation! HOT TOPIC Can I ask my bridesmaids to wear their hair a certain way? @LondonLisa If you choose the hairstyle, you need to pay for it. @frenchiekin While your besties may not complain to your face, they may really hate the way their hair looks in the style you want—and I’d hate to worry that one of my bridesmaids is self-conscious about how she looks all day/night at my wedding. @huskypuppy14 Dictating specifics is saying you care more about the look of your wedding than your friends, and that’s not cool. explore our apps Whether you’re looking for dress inspiration or need a to-do list to keep you on track, The Knot apps are here to help you every step of the way. Here are…1 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016partymodern rooftopPHOTOGRAPHY BY PAMELA HULTS PHOTOGRAPHYPEARL EVENTS AUSTIN held a luxe rooftop event at the brand-new JW MARRIOTT AUSTIN (the largest hotel in Austin!). Lush blooms, clear furniture and sweet swan details added to the evening’s sophisticated vibe.“The space had only been open for a month and we knew the rooftop deck was where we needed to be in order to throw the party of the year. To accent the space, we kept the décor clean, crisp and modern, so as not to take away from the roof’s breathtaking views.” —Pearl Events Austinthe team:event location JW Marriott Austin, Austin photography Pamela Hults Photography videography ILC Films planner Pearl Events Austin flowers Bouquets of Austin catering JW Marriott Austin desserts Kellie’s Baking Co.; Simon Lee Bakery favors Chocolaterie Tessa stationery Meldeen…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016ask carleyQ My in-laws are backing out of paying for the rehearsal dinner, but they still want to have it at a fancy restaurant. Do we have to keep their plans? A Absolutely not! Regardless of their reason for rescinding their offer to host and pay for your rehearsal dinner, your in-laws have put you in a financial bind. You have other options: Host the rehearsal dinner at a nice restaurant and only invite the wedding party, or opt for an at-home, potluck-style event. Everyone can bring their favorite dish, and you’ll still have a nice prewedding get-together. And if your in-laws have a problem with it, they’re welcome to chip in again. Otherwise, they get no say. SHOWER GUEST LIST Q My bridesmaids asked for the guest list for my…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016by the ELEMENTSSee more style inspiration at TheKnot.com/style…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016top picks7 creative co*cktails See more inspiration at TheKnot.com/realweddings 6 adorable animals Find more fun wedding animals at TheKnot.com/realweddings 5 unique arches Find more décor inspiration at TheKnot.com/photos…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016invites done rightset the right toneThe invitation is a guest’s first real peek at your wedding. Along with listing the location and the time of day, the invitation—more specifically, its style—hints to the formality of your wedding. Want to get creative? Save-the-dates are less formal and the perfect place to be playful, even if you’re having a black-tie affair.make sure it’s legibleWhen you’re busy thinking about colors and patterns, it can be easy to forget about the text, but remember the info you put on the invitation is the whole point of sending it in the first place. Your stationer can help, but in general, avoid light ink on light backgrounds and dark ink on dark backgrounds. Also, yellow and pastels are tough colors to read, so if you’re going with those,…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 201610 ways to save on your wedding cake1 decide on a bakery or team up with your catererYou’ll be more limited in your design options, but working with a small bakery has its perks. Because they aren’t wedding cake designers, you may have to forgo the sugar flower cascade you originally pinned to your inspiration board, but the savings will be well worth it. Stick to a simple design and flavors you know the bakery can master (pass on the exotic passion-fruit filling). Or work with your caterer directly—many offer wedding cakes as a part of their packages. Even if a cake isn’t included, you can often negotiate a better price since you’re already putting down a sizable sum for passed appetizers and a sit-down feast. Some venues with designated caterers actually require you to use their…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016in good favorMany elements of your wedding, like those carefully chosen centerpieces, make an impact in the moment. Others, like invitations, give people a sense of what’s to come. It’s your favor’s job to leave a lasting impression on your guests. A parting gift should express your gratitude in a personal way and evoke the sentiment of the day. Favors don’t have to be over the top, but they should somehow reflect you as a coupleparty favor basicsParty mavens know that the secret to a successful soiree is guests who leave happy; a small gift is the perfect way to thank attendees.good gifts, happy guestsSome of the first known favors—love knots made of lace and ribbons—debuted in the 16th century in England. The tradition of wedding favors has continued throughout the years…8 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016bridal suite checklistplay some music“Playing your favorite music will help keep the vibe fun and festive,” Wahl says. “Don’t forget an iPod and dock to set the mood so you can relax while the professionals prep and pamper everyone.”prepare for your glam teamSkip the inconvenient trip to the salon and have your makeup artist and hairstylist come to you. If you’re planning on getting ready at home, pick a room that has windows for lots of natural light and tons of wall outlets for multiple hair dryers and curling irons. Take into account that the room should also be big enough to hold your entire makeup and hair team (on average two or three people), plus your bridal party comfortably. Bring in mirrors and be sure to have at least one full-length…4 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016the best maid plansFrom ill-fitting attire to bridesmaids that don’t follow protocol, dressing your attendants isn’t as easy as picking a style you love and a color that coordinates with your wedding palette. Prevent fashion from getting in the way of your friendships with these solutions for common bridesmaid-dress-shopping issues.she has bad tasteTHE SITUATION You let your bridesmaids pick their own dresses— and one of them chooses a dress you absolutely despise.THE FIX If you don’t love the dress she picked, but it falls within the parameters you set (you asked for black and knee length, and it’s black and knee length), let it go. Same deal if the color is only a bit off. A lime green dress instead of a chartreuse green one isn’t a huge deal. If there’s a real…7 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016dress lingoball gownWHAT IT IS The number one distinguishing trait of a ball gown is its very full (aka huge) skirt. The silhouette also has a fi tted bodice and is cinched at the natural waist. BEST FOR Brides with boyish fi gures. The fullness of the dress will make you look curvier. THINK TWICE IF You’re a petite bride. You could get swallowed up by a dress this voluminous. For similar styles visit DemetriosBride.comtrumpetWHAT IT IS This shape gets its name from the straight-lined skirt that subtly fl ares from the knees toward the hem in a trumpet shape. BEST FOR Curvy brides who are looking for a formfi tting dress that’s slightly easier to move in. THINK TWICE IF You’re not comfortable with clearly showing off your shape. For…2 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016bridal budget basicsBefore you start a single inspiration board, you’ll want to determine who is contributing to the wedding costs and how much you have to work with. Whether you have $30,000 or $300,000 to spend, with careful organization, zealous budgeting and a few money-saving tricks, you can have the wedding you’ve always wanted. Here’s how.1 put together a rough estimateThe first step to figuring out your budget is doing some research on what you have to spend (by talking to your partner, parents and anyone else who might be contributing) and what you want for your wedding. You can use tools like The Knot budgeter to give you an idea of what key items will cost, and it will also help you figure out what your priorities are.2 discuss who is…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016do you need a wedding planner?No one’s denying that you and your mom make a great team when it comes to your wedding day, but when you think of all the logistics and details behind planning such a big event (or the strain it could put on your relationship), it definitely couldn’t hurt to have a little extra help on your side. Enter the wedding planner: A professional that can keep you on track, visualize your theme and make your perfect event appear before your very eyes.full-service planningA full-service planner handles both design and coordination from start to finish (designing the overall vision, hiring and meeting with vendors, and arranging weekend activities for guests). This type of planner is great for couples who are having a complex event or simply want a professional to guide…5 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20169 ceremony planning dos and don’tsDO get to know your officiant ahead of timeThis is the person who is going to lead you through the emotional commitment you’re making, so it’s crucial they’re someone whom you’re completely comfortable with. And if you get to know them, your ceremony will feel much more personalized and authentic. Your meet up doesn’t have to be formal; you could grab coffee together or take them up on their offer for premarital counseling (it’s not just for couples with issues!).TIP FOR THE TAKING If you’re not required by your religious institution or venue to use a particular officiant or celebrant, you could choose someone you’re already close with, like the pastor of your childhood church or a friend who has known you both forever. Just check what the requirements are…7 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016along for the ridedecide on the rideYou’ll need to figure out the mode of transport for the two of you as well as your family and attendants, and maybe even some of your out-of-town guests. Hiring transportation makes a lot of sense; it gets people to sites on time and without incident (remember, you don’t want your dearest hitting the roads after a few glasses of champagne). The logistics (especially if the guest list is large) can be nightmarish, so get a move on: Assess your needs and pick your approach, then book your dream ride well in advance of your wedding date just to be on the safe side.personal drive styleFirst things first: transport for the two of you. Like every other aspect of your wedding, selecting your own getaway mobile should…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016the perfect pourOenophiles have no problem selecting their favorite wines for dinner parties—but on a larger, wedding-reception scale, wine experts and novices alike might not know the ins and outs of serving vino for hundreds of guests. From temperature and menu pairings to the much-debated question of how many bottles to buy, follow these expert tips to pulling off a perfect pour with every glass. But full disclosure: You should always choose varietals you and your fiancé enjoy, since wine can actually say something about you—even better if it’s part of your love story.think less seasonally…Traditionally, the assumption is that a fall or winter wedding automatically means red wine, just like a spring or summer celebration is synonymous with white wine. But actually, it doesn’t matter what time of year it is,…6 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016in keeping with traditionfrom pittsburgh: a cookie tableWHAT IT IS Couples in Pittsburgh don’t need an excuse to have a giant assortment of cookies at their wedding—it’s tradition! In fact, for some, it’s more important to have a cookie table at their reception than a wedding cake. Originating in southwestern Pennsylvania, it’s said that Eastern European, Italian and Greek immigrants in that region wanted to bring a little piece of their homeland to the US and made lady locks, pizzelles and other treats for wedding receptions. Commonly homemade by the couple’s friends and family, there are different varieties for guests to try.MAKE IT YOURS While the cookies on your table certainly don’t need to all be homemade, you could have a few family members make their favorite cookie or other dessert recipe.from new…8 min
The Knot Texas Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2016knife know–howKnives are the unsung heroes of every kitchen. Today’s knives are ceramic, stainless steel or carbon steel—making them long lasting with proper care. They can also be a bit of an investment, which is why they’re a great add to your registry. >>how to choose your knivesYour knives will be one of the few things you use on a daily basis in your kitchen, so it’s important to pick them wisely. Take a trip to your local kitchen retailer and hold a few different knives to see how they feel in your hand—this is a crucial step in the process. Don’t try and register for knives before handling a few styles and brands. A knife should feel solid and secure in your grip. Believe it or not, two different chef’s…7 min
